As more of us shift from remote work to hybrid work schedules or even a full-on return to the office full time, it may take us a while to fully reconnect with colleagues — or even connect with new ones who were hired during the COVID-19 pandemic but whom you have not yet met face to face.
Maybe there’s even been some weird, loud or toxic workplace behavior on the part of your colleagues? After two years of working remotely, it’s entirely possible that too many of us got comfortable going barefoot in our home offices, leaving dishes in the sink, or taking calls on our speakerphone. But getting back to the office means some folks may have to re-learn the basics of office behavior.
Employee Communications: Take a Tip from Toddlers
For that reason, some long-ago wisdom from Robert Fulghum bears repeating. In this extract from his book, All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten, Fulghum offers a few basic thoughts on how to work productively with others and lead a more fulfilling life:
“All I really need to know about how to live and what to do and how to be I learned in kindergarten,” he begins. “Wisdom was not at the top of the graduate-school mountain, but there in the sandpile at Sunday School. These are (a few of) the things I learned:
- Share everything
- Play fair
- Don’t hit people
- Put things back where you found them
- Clean up your own mess
- Don’t take things that aren’t yours
- Say you’re sorry when you hurt somebody
The reason Fulghum’s book, out for three decades, is such a best seller is that it emphasizes that the simple things matter the most and that kindness is the best gift you can give to others.
Employee Communications: Why These Eternal Truths Matter More NOW
Coincidentally, as many of us are returning to the office, Barry Moline (below), a friend, client and executive director of the California Municipal Utilities Association (CMUA), recently spoke about building a culture of teamwork to enhance employee engagement and performance.
Credit: Utility Energy Forum
In a nutshell, Barry’s book provides anecdotal and statistical evidence that superior organizational performance stems from highly engaged employees, and further, that employees become more engaged when they know enough about their team members to feel personally committed to them.
He’s not talking about team members’ titles or where they went to college. Instead, Barry urges us to go deeper in order to get to know our colleagues better, on a more personal level, by asking these kinds of questions:
- What are they watching on their streaming services?
- What was the best part of their weekend?
- What is their favorite book?
- What were they doing 5 years ago, 10 years ago or 20 years ago?
- Outside the office, what’s got their attention these days?